Monday, March 30, 2015

Protection Of Health



Recently I met Ben , a 23 years old person. He is fair, hardworking and well built. He works in an ITES  company in Kochi.
 We were discussing about incidents of crisis in life. He shared a crisis he had recently. He works long shifts in office.
 He donated blood to a relative who was about to undergo surgery. The “sister” who took his blood in the hospital blood bank told him that she sees some abnormality in his profile.
 Later he had a medical checkup to verify what his problem is.
 He said, other than ‘Kidney’ all other parts have started failing.
 He says the main reason for this is
a)      Ordering Pizza, Burger etc., and eating from office regularly.
b)      Eating home delivered readymade chicken from popular fast-food.
c)      Lack of exercise.

Now he says he has been directed by the doctor to run for 2 hours daily morning and restrict his food habits and control his weight.
All the above is due to lack of awareness and detrimental life style practices followed (weight control, food control, exercise)
We ‘know’ all this.
 But we will not follow, because we believe that ill-health will 
“Never happen to us, it happen to others only ". 

Monday, March 23, 2015

Meaning of Existence knowledge Bliss - [Sachidanandam]



Whenever we see the messages from the centuries of awakened souls, the repeated essence is ‘existence, knowledge, bliss’ and that ‘thou art  that’.   [Tatvamasi]

      What I understand from the above is, we have to realise that focused time and concentration on the present, will give us bliss. Also that there is no difference between my pain, hunger, happiness and that of another person. The only difference is in name and form. [Otherwise all are the same]
    
     This mainly requires a certain level of emotional detachment , to comprehend. Otherwise we will be wallowing in our own perceived misery, pain, feeling of loss and hence not see things as they really are. As a person known to me put it, “everybody thinks, the whole world is running because of my presence/ intervention”. Also we are being jealous of others and guarding our possessions.

     Nothing could be more far from the truth. Ego is the main reason for this. We should steadily practice emotional detachment, concentration and clear thinking and slowly the self-realization will dawn upon us. No other tool from outside is needed.

     Clear thinking is the most difficult thing in the above, People run away from thinking through, to logical conclusions. Emotional attachments and blind spots arising from those attachments are the reason. This short life is not to be wasted worrying, we should cultivate clear thinking.

     In fact, our own “personal” perceived, problems are nothing, compared to the majesty of the universe and its own inexorable laws. Everything is perfect in it.

     Let us learn to see things as they really are, “enjoy the bliss of this movement” and “be of use” as long as we are here. Life will become lighter and free.

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

happy life


01/2012 Better Management Newsletter
For A Happy Life

1. Accept the man with his defects. You will get the best out of him.
2. Failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently.
3. Physical strength is measured by what we can carry. Spiritual strength, by what we can bear.
4. Don’t hesitate to say
  • a. I don’t know.
  • b. I made a mistake.
  • c. I need help.
  • d. I am sorry.
5. Never compromise on your integrity.
6. Never underestimate the power of love and forgiveness.
7. Hear both sides before judging.
8. Be your spouse’s best friend.
9. Wear out, do not rust out.
10. Compliment at least 3 people daily.
11. Give people a second chance and never a third.
12. Stop blaming others.
13. Live beneath your means.
14. Gratitude is an important attitude.
Excerpt from ‘Happy Life’ Sankara Publications.Chennai

love medicines and miracles - book

recently completed this book by dr Bernie siegel ,a cancer specailist.
the book is full of practical wisdom.
it helps you to see life with a different stet of eyes
worth reading.