one of my friends in a humorous mood , shared the following, I feel there is some element of truth in it
However, if we want love and happiness,we should follow the opposite
However, if we want love and happiness,we should follow the opposite
Strategy
of an Insecure Psycho Nut Case marital partner, to Drive a Spouse to the Mental Asylum!
- Always find fault, criticize.
- Always misinterpret any “good thing” to be “bad”.
- Always squander good ripe opportunities to be happy together (or to show love) by some silly fault finding.
- Be a “taker” not a “giver”.
- Be on the offensive always.
- Become upset and peeved often (and show I am feeling miserable due to you).
- Belittle the spouse and their family.
- Claim “I have sacrificed a lot for you”.
- Give more importance to ‘things’ rather than ‘people.’
- Give more importance to “show” rather than “substance”.
- Give paramount importance to blood relations only.
- Be Jealous and not allow the partner to grow/develop independence and emotional freedom.
- Make fuss while doing any small chores also it is a great job that “it is a great job I am doing with unbearable strain”.
- Never show appreciation to the partner even for good things
- Never show gratitude to wife/husband.
- Not admitting to one’s own faults, even defending the faults.
- Not ready to adjust or compromise for anything at all.
- One rule for me and my side of the family(give the benefit of doubt) , another rule for you and your side of the family(always found guilty) .
- Saying “I am not leaving you, only because of our children”.
- Speak evil of others, always.
- Talk too much, do not listen at all, to the partner.
- Try to avoid the partner’s family to the maximum, possible.
- Work always with a hidden agenda – do not expose your plan to wife/husband.
- Work on remote control or too much and constant contact with one’s parents, brothers, sisters).
- Accuse the partner that “ you are doing all “ the above things
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Family case in point?
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